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The Why Guide Quiz


Not sure where to begin? Start with what lights you up.

Finding your why doesn’t always start with a big vision—it often starts with something small. A moment of curiosity. A burst of joy. A Wednesday night pickleball game you didn’t expect to enjoy.


This short quiz is here to help you listen for those sparks. It's not about pressure—it's about possibility. If you’ve been wondering what could bring you a little purpose, peace, or passion in this season, these 10 questions might offer a nudge in the right direction.

Take a few quiet minutes and answer honestly. You never know—your next “why” might be tucked inside one of these answers.


Instructions: Choose the answer that feels most true for you right now. No pressure, no perfect answers—just possibilities.


1. How much time do you realistically have for a hobby?

a. A few minutes a day

b. A couple hours a week

c. One long chunk each weekend

d. It depends—my schedule is unpredictable


2. What kind of activity sounds more appealing right now?

a. Something creative

b. Something active

c. Something relaxing

d. Something social


3. Which setting feels most comforting?

a. A cozy room with warm lighting

b. A nature trail

c. A kitchen with music playing

d. A local bookstore or coffee shop


4. When you think of starting something new, what stops you?

a. Fear of failure

b. Not knowing where to start

c. Feeling too tired

d. Not wanting to do it alone


5. What do you miss doing—or wish you’d tried?

a. Painting, crafting, or photography

b. Hiking, dancing, or swimming

c. Baking, cooking, or gardening

d. Book club, game night, or travel


6. What do you want this hobby to give you?

a. A sense of beauty or creativity

b. A sense of strength or movement

c. A sense of peace or comfort

d. A sense of connection


7. What did your beloved always say you were good at?

a. Making things beautiful

b. Keeping the family active

c. Creating a cozy home

d. Making people feel welcome


8. Pick a word that feels like your goal right now:

a. Create

b. Move

c. Nourish

d. Belong


9. How do you want to feel when you're in the middle of your new hobby?

a. Inspired

b. Energized

c. Calm

d. Curious


10. Which phrase sounds like something you’d say?

a. “I love learning new skills.”

b. “I need to get out of the house.”

c. “I want something soothing.”

d. “I’d love to find my people.”

 

🌟 Results Guide

You could give them these categories based on their answers—or let them self-reflect:

  • Mostly A’s – The Maker

    Try art journaling, crafting, photography, home DIY, or watercolor painting.


  • Mostly B’s – The Explorer

    Try hiking, pickleball, dance, yoga, or joining a walking club.


  • Mostly C’s – The Nurturer

    Try baking, gardening, knitting, or hosting Sunday dinners.


  • Mostly D’s – The Connector

    Try joining a book club, trivia night, volunteering, or a travel group for women.

 
 

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